Good habits to help make you happy, Writing challenge?

 

Happiness is one aspiration all people share.  No one wants to be sad and depressed. We’ve all seen people who are always happy – even amidst agonizing life trials. I’m not saying happy people don’t feel grief, sorrow or sadness; they just don’t let it overtake their life. Here is a list of things I believe happy people do to keep themselves happy, just interesting

1. Appreciate Life
Be thankful that you woke up alive each morning. Develop a childlike sense of wonder towards life. Focus on the beauty of every living thing. Make the most of each day. Don’t take anything for granted. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Be happy today, yesterday is gone, tommorow will be what it will be

2. Choose Friends Wisely
Surround yourself with happy, positive people who share your values and goals. Friends that have the same ethics as you will encourage you to achieve your dreams. They help you to feel good about yourself. They are there to lend a helping hand when needed. If you surround yourself with drug users, you may become one, negative nasty people, you may become one, I believe this is vital in being happy, not having to stress over people, and if a person comes along you don’t care for, lose them

3. Be Considerate
Accept others for who they are as well as where they are in life. Respect them for who they are. Touch them with a kind and generous spirit. Help when you are able, without trying to change the other person. Try to brighten the day of everyone you come into contact with. Sadly not everyone will go for it, but I think it’s important to try

4. Learn Continuously
Keep up to date with the latest news regarding your career and hobbies. Try new and daring things that has sparked your interest – such as dancing, skiing, surfing or sky-diving. I used to this a lot more, now I am restricted somewhat, I have learnt new things and new ways and different things I wouldn’t have dreamed of doing if my pain hadn’t arrived, like writing 🙂

5. Creative Problem Solving
Don’t wallow in self-pity. As soon as you face a challenge get busy finding a solution. Don’t let the set backs affect your mood, instead see each new obstacle you face as an opportunity to make a positive change. Learn to trust your gut instincts – it’s almost always right. I sometimes get this, but I get it out of my system very quickly, I find with this blog, when a moment arrived I don’t like, if I get it out of my system by blogging it, it releases it, just a moment I look at it as

6. Do What They Love
Some statistics show that 80% of people dislike their jobs! No wonder there’s so many unhappy people running around. We spend a great deal of our life working. Choose a career that you enjoy – the extra money of a job you detest isn’t worth it. Make time to enjoy your hobbies and pursue special interests. I worked in football and fixed computers, two things I love doing, so I was getting pain for things I actually liked doing, and I had my own business

7. Enjoy Life
Take the time to see the beauty around you. There’s more to life than work. Take time to smell the roses, watch a sunset or sunrise with a loved one, take a walk along the seashore, hike in the woods etc. Learn to live in the present moment and cherish it. Don’t live in the past or the future. Like I always say, if you are happy THIS SECOND then life is good, moments matter

8. Laugh
Don’t take yourself – or life to seriously. You can find humour in just about any situation. Laugh at yourself – no one’s perfect. When appropriate laugh and make light of the circumstances. (Naturally there are times that you should be serious as it would be improper to laugh.) I am a prankster and always goofing around. Reading my blog you may get another feel for me, but it is impossible to truly get a 100% feel for a person through reading font, it can take a LONG time to get to know real people in your life, never mind people on the internet, I am a joker, serves me well, try it

9. Forgive
Holding a grudge will hurt no one but you. Forgive others for your own peace of mind. When you make a mistake – own up to it – learn from it – and FORGIVE yourself. Something I taught myself, I could hate several people in my personal life for things in my past but what’s the point, the past is the past, let it go, as I say, if you don’t like a person all too much, don’t have them in your life, but always try to find a common ground

10. Gratitude
Develop an attitude of gratitude. Count your blessings; All of them – even the things that seem trivial. Be grateful for your home, your work and most importantly your family and friends. Take the time to tell them that you are happy they are in your life. I tell Dawn and the World I am blessed even though I live in agony, I want to live and be happy, so I choose to do this

11. Invest in Relationships
Always make sure your loved ones know you love them even in times of conflict. Nurture and grow your relationships with your family and friends by making the time to spend with them. Don’t break your promises to them. Be supportive. These days people help me and Dawn, but we both are always thankful and if I make Dawn or one of the kids a promise I do my best to see it through, even if in pain

12. Keep Their Word
Honesty is the best policy. Every action and decision you make should be based on honesty. Be honest with yourself and with your loved ones. I am as honest as they come, in my life I don’t see the point in being dishonest, in the end you will only get hurt, I know people who make their life up as they go along, some do it because they have nothing and want to feel better about themselves, some just lie, so being honest means you will have to remember less

13. Meditate
Meditation gives your very active brain a rest. When it’s rested you will have more energy and function at a higher level. Types of meditation include yoga, hypnosis, relaxation tapes, affirmations, visualization or just sitting in complete silence. Find something you enjoy and make the time to practice daily. Something I know works for people I know, I have a CD I listen to just now and I lay in bed with a headset on and just drift away, works for me, it gives you “me time” and when you open your eyes you do feel like you have rested

14. Mind Their Own Business
Concentrate on creating your life the way you want it. Take care of you and your family. Don’t get overly concerned with what other people are doing or saying. Don’t get caught up with gossip or name calling. Don’t judge. Everyone has a right to live their own life the way they want to – including you. I did the blog a few down “Live and let live” and this is what I mean here, I allow opinions even if they are insane, because if someone has an opinion and they believe it to be true, who am I to get involved? I am not going to argue with someone who has a way of thinking different to my own, good practice this one!

15. Optimism
See the glass as half full. Find the positive side of any given situation. It’s there – even though it may be hard to find. Know that everything happens for a reason, even though you may never know what the reason is. Steer clear of negative thoughts. If a negative thought creeps in – replace it with a positive thought, this is a real tough one for me personally, I find it hard to be positive sometimes, but even when I am having a really bad day in pain, I find a way to be positive, laughter is a brilliant release for pain and I am optimistic all will be well one day with my pain and I know my family will be well

16. Love Unconditionally
Accept others for who they are. You don’t put limitations on your love. Even though you may not always like the actions of your loved ones – you continue to love them. Something I 100% do all the time, people make mistakes, say things they don’t mean, but it is a moment sometimes,  so I accept people for who and what they are, some family get me down, but I learn to live and let live

17. Persistence
Never give up. Face each new challenge with the attitude that it will bring you one step closer to your goal. You will never fail, as long as you never give up. Focus on what you want, learn the required skills, make a plan to succeed and take action. We are always happiest while pursuing something of value to us. Like me not doing football, I am DETERMINED I will get back, I am only 40 years old with 15 years experience and 19 trophies won and also 12 certificated in football (Soccer) managment

18. Be Proactive
Accept what can not be changed. Happy people don’t waste energy on circumstances beyond their control. Accept your limitations as a human being. Determine how you can take control by creating the outcome you desire – rather than waiting to respond. I find it hard, but I accepted the new pain me, I still have the odd day or moment, but all in, I have accepted my new life so here I am, writing about it, lol

19. Self Care
Take care of your mind, body and health. Get regular medical check ups. Eat healthy and work out. Get plenty of rest. Drink lots of water. Exercise your mind by continually energizing it with interesting and exciting challenges.

20. Self Confidence
Don’t try to be someone that you’re not. After all no one likes a phony. Determine who you are in the inside – your own personal likes and dislikes. Be confident in who you are. Do the best you can and don’t second guess yourself. I say it how it is and do it as it says on the box, I never second guess people, I am a “See what happened” type of guy, and I am as confident as they come, I am a confident person

21. Take Responsibility
Happy people know and understand that they are 100% responsible for their life. They take responsibility for their moods, attitude, thoughts, feelings, actions and words. They are the first to admit when they have made a mistake. Begin today by taking responsibility for your happiness. Work on developing these habits as you own. The more you incorporate the above habits into your daily lifestyle – the happier you will be. I believe this to be true, but it is only an opinion, I may be wrong, BUT…
Most of all: BE TRUE TO YOURSELF

If you think there is anything you can add to this  list or disagree with, please, leave a message. This is my thinking, but feel free to copy the 21 things and give me your take or your way of thinking on them, please do in-fact, call it a writing challenge

IF YOU WANT TO, COPY THE 21 WAYS I PUT IN TO BE HAPPY AND ADD YOUR OWN THOUGHTS, AND LEAVE ON A REPLY HERE. Please, I would like that!! 

More love, Less hate

Shaun

So, a REALLY old Laptop broke I had

The laptop above is 7 years old? Maybe longer. I was looking for some cables the other week in the “PC Parts Cupboard” and came across this old boy. Tried to boot it up, nothing. Think it was Windows XP or before XP. I thought “Hmmm I have house insurance” And it broke with all the crap in the cupboard and fell to the bottom. Then Courtney pulled it over while I was looking at it.

Called my home insurance, and got a call back today, they are replacing it with this new Toshiba Laptop

Windows 8 64-bit (pre-installed)
2nd generation Intel® Core™ i3-2348M Processor
Toshiba TruBrite® HD TFT High Brightness display with 16 : 9 aspect ratio and LED backlighting
1TB Hard Drive
DVD Super Multi drive (Double Layer)
Matt Black Finish with textured pattern, black keyboard
4,096 (1x) MB
DDR3 RAM (1,333 MHz)
Intel® HD Graphics 3000
maximum life : up to 4h00min (Mobile Mark™ 2012)
weight : starting at 2.3 kg
W x D x H : 380.0 x 242.0 x 33.52 mm
1 × external microphone
1 × headphone (stereo)
2 × USB 2.0
(supports SD™ Card up to 2 GB, miniSD™/microSD™ Card with adapter up to 2 GB, SDHC™ Card up to 32 GB, SDXC™ Card up to 64 GB and MultiMedia Card™ up to 2 GB)
1 × HDMI-out supporting 1080p signal format
1 × integrated 1.0MP HD Web Camera (1,280 x 800) with built-in microphone
1 × USB 3.0

Who’s a lucky boy 🙂 The old Laptop cost £700 at the time I think. Everyone in the house has a Laptop, so I guess I now have a laptop for the Dog..

It’s a HARD life isn’t it

Shaun

Morphine wins the day, Good night troops

Well I have been awake 35 hours or so, I think (feels like it) I have broken or fractures my right ankle for the 8th time, it’s swollen and went blue. I don’t even go to the hospital no more. I just stick on one of these  for a few weeks.

I have just taken 5mg of Morphine, the pain is UNREAL, so this is “Goodnight” from me. Been a hoot of a day here, kids playing the drums with 15 saucepans was brilliant for the old ear drums, But this is sore. And unfair, and I guess it pisses me off sometimes. I say I just get on with it, and I do, but this second, right now, as I type, just before the Morphine bangs me on the back of the head, I thought I would say goodnight. Pain is just not right, I find it shit that I can’t get a run of time with no pain. I got 2 weeks last month, and I was thankful for it, really was. But I went over on my ankle talking the dog to the back garden, on a stone! oh lucky me 🙂 So before the Morphine kicks in, just to say, you are all amazing people. If I could hug you all, I would hug about 843 of you, just saying, but I am only joking

Well the Morphine is kicking in here, so I am going before this turns into a novel.

Cya’s on the B side

More love, Less hate

Don’t hate each other, love each other, be nice, never gossip, people who gossip are hiding their shortcomings or issues, I learnt that from a pamphlet I found in a hedge may I add, so don’t believe it, it just made sense. Not the hedge, the pamphlet about gossips I mean, I think 

ok, the Morphine has kicked in, I am going to bed to stare at the wall

Catch!!

ps: READ THE TAGS BELOW, THEY MAKE SENSE TO ME RIGHT NOW, SAME AS THIS VERY IMPORTANT PICTURE ABOVE! 

60 of the world’s happiest facts

 

1. A group of flamingos is called a flamboyance.

2. If you fake laugh long enough you’ll start to really laugh, really, really hard.

3. The book cover to the prize winning short story collection, Spellbound, was chosen because author, Joel Willans, bought his wife’s engagement ring with poker winnings.

4. The Beatles used the word “love” 613 times throughout their career.

5. These websites exist.

6. Every year, millions of trees grow thanks to squirrels forgetting where they buried their nuts.

7. On the day of his assassination, Martin Luther King Jr. had a pillow-fight in his motel room.

8. The nitrogen in our DNA, the calcium in our teeth, the iron in our blood, the carbon in our apple pies were made in the interiors of collapsing stars. We’re all made of star dust.

9. Cancer death rates are down 20% in past 20 years.

10. The miles travelled by the Apollo 11 crew to the moon were greater than every single exploration mission to the New World combined.

11. Penguins only have one mate their entire life and “propose” by giving their mate a pebble.

12. There’s an animal called a Dik Dik. And it’s the cutest antelope you’ll ever see.

13. Despite high infant mortality rates and lower life expectancies, not one of your direct ancestors died childless.

14. Cuddling releases Oxytocin which helps speed healing and recovery from physical wounds.

15. Otters hold hands when sleeping so they don’t drift away from each other.

16. Apollo 17 astronaut Gene Cernan, the last man to walk on the Moon, wrote his daughter initials there. They’ll last at least 50,000 years.

17. There’s a type of jellyfish that lives forever.

18. Wayne Allwine (the voice of Mickey Mouse) and Russi Taylor (the voice of Minnie Mouse) were married in real life.

19. We now have less crime, a lower death rate and longer life expectancy than at any other time in human history.

20. The clitoris has 8000 nerve fibres, double that of the penis, and is the only organ in the body, which has evolved purely for pleasure.

21. Butterflies can taste with their feet.

22. For someone, somewhere in the world, today is the most amazing day of their life.

23. When you die, your body decomposes, and the atoms that contained “you” are recycled into Earth to be used again.

24. Every year the Netherlands sends 20,000 tulip bulbs to Canada to thank them for their aid in the Second World War.

25. Rats giggle when you tickle them. Their voices are so high-pitched you need special equipment to hear them, but when you do, their laughs are immediately evident.

26. Sea horses mate for life, are completely faithful and travel together by holding on to each others tails.

27. The guy at the end of this video was born.

28. If you say “my cocaine” you sound like Michael Caine saying his own name.

29. Male puppies, when playing with female puppies, will intentionally let the female win.

30. The next Star Wars will not be directed by George Lucas.

31. It takes seventeen muscles to smile and forty-three to frown.

32.The kingdom of Bhutan use ‘gross national happiness’ as a key national indicator.

33. The majority of European children born in 2013 will live to see the year 2100.

34. Cows have best friends.

35. Neurologically speaking, seeing somebody else smile actually makes you happier.

36. Every human being spent about half an hour as a single cell.

37. There are people, ombrophiles, who have a passionate love for rain.

38. Once your brain realizes that you’re dying, it releases DMT, one of the most powerful known psychedelics. This dilates your perception of time and allowing you to live inside your own mind for hours or even days.

39. No matter how long you live there will always be an amazing new food for you try.

40. A group of porcupines is called a prickle.

41. Aside from a sample in a lab, Smallpox is completely extinct. No one else will ever die from it again.

42. A pig’s orgasms last thirty minutes.

43. We are going to die, and that makes us the lucky ones. Most people are never going to die because they are never going to be born.

44. Sloths only leave their tree once a week, to pee and poo.

45. Spinner dolphins sleep in pairs, one with the left hemisphere asleep, the other with the right. They each keep watch with one eye and half a brain. They are known to sleep-mate for life.

46. At the time of your birth, you were, for a few seconds, the youngest person on the planet.

47. Cows produce the most milk when listening to the song Everybody Hurts by REM.

48. Somewhere, someone is losing their virginity right now.

49. If you spell out numbers in order, the first time you get to the letter “a” is at one-thousand.

50. We’ve all been here forever. Every bit of matter we see has been here since the beginning of time and it always will be.

51. A monkey was once tried and convicted for smoking a cigarette in South Bend, Indiana.

52. Happiness is a skill. You can learn it and it’s not hard.

53. Except when breeding, the Common Swift spend their entire lives in the air, living on the insects they catch in flight. They drink, feed, and often mate and sleep on the wing

54. Baby rabbits are called kittens.

55. Baby puffins are called pufflings.

56. Costa Rica is statistically the happiest nation on Earth.

57. Worms communicate by snuggling.

58. 2013 is the first year since 1987 that consists for four different digits.

59. With our horseless carriages, flying robots, space travel, long-distance communication at the speed of light, cloning, lasers, connection to people all over the world, we are living in the future people dreamed of.

60. If you blend a sea sponge, it will re-form back into a sea sponge.

Once again I have to thank you Word Press

 

I know I can’t always say “Thank you” or can I? But again, Word Press, yes you, Thank you. Over the weekend I was in a horrible place, it started with this blog and the blog after, 3 blogs:

No pain for two weeks I had.

http://prayingforoneday.wordpress.com/2013/07/28/a-week-with-very-little-pain-please-god-this-is-good/

The pain came back

http://prayingforoneday.wordpress.com/2013/08/03/my-pain-came-back/

I was nearly done, you all saved me, and I was VERY close to ending it all

http://prayingforoneday.wordpress.com/2013/08/04/no-human-should-have-to-live-like-this-so-unfair/

But here I am, Tuesday night, I got so much advice from family and friends, but on here, I got emails, Skype calls, Facebook chats, and I MUST give a big thank you to Rachel @ http://rachieadventures.wordpress.com/ Honey you started talking to me on Facebook after I blogged that last link there. I owe you so much pal it is untrue. You were there telling me what to do, you even got a hold of Dawn and told her about the blog, I thank you, you are a GREAT friend I love having as a friend,

As for everyone else, I counted, over 200 messaged from email, Facebook, etc, I am so lucky to have too many wonderful friends. I won’t say followers, that is, for me, disrespectful, if you are reading this, thank you for being my friend, thank you for caring, thank you for understanding, thank you all for giving me time to adjust to the pain and the medication as it worsens, thank you for making me laugh and smile. It would be very easy to read my blog and see an unhappy person, not at all, I have a stupid sense of humour and laughter is the order of the day.

So to you all, again, thank you. I love   Word Press it came to me when I needed it. I made an award on March 4^th this year. I offer it to you for free. You can if you wish give it to 10 others, but PLEASE ACCEPT “The Word Pres Family Award” This was my reason for creating it:

This is an award for everyone who is part of the “Word Press Family” I start this award on the basis that the WordPress family has taken me in, and showed me love and a caring side only WordPress can. The way people take a second to be nice, to answer a question and not make things a competition amazes me here. I know I have been given many awards, but I wanted to leave my own legacy on here by creating my own award, as many have done before. This represents “Family” we never meet, but are there for us as family. It is my honour to start this award. Thank you, Shaun @ http://prayingforoneday.wordpress.com/

Please accept this award: http://prayingforoneday.wordpress.com/2013/04/21/the-wordpress-family-award/

Please accept this Award above and thank you once more for showing what only Word Press can, love, compassion, a caring side, a ruthless side, the 3^rd blog I posted many gave me a hard time for even thinking that. So thank you for putting me in my place.

More Love

Less hate

Shaun

 

 

 

 

 

45 Life Lessons, written by a 90 year old

 

The thoughts of a 90 year old person fascinate me, they lived in a different World than we do now. They lived in a world where in WWII if a man could not go and fight for his country, he would talk his own life out of guilt. That is a different world right there. When there were morals and kids were disciplined and knew their place. I could go on. But to read 45 things from a 90 year old is an  eye opener. I hope you enjoyed as much as I did

 

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short not to enjoy it.

4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.

5. Don’t buy stuff you don’t need.

6. You don’t have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.

7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.

8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for things that matter.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.

12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye… But don’t worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful.  Clutter weighs you down in many ways.

18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It’s never too late to be happy.  But it’s all up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Overprepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words, ‘In five years, will this matter?’

27. Always choose Life.

28. Forgive but don’t forget.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give Time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.

35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d
grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you think you need.

42. The best is yet to come…

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.

Just ordered a new PC

 

FX-6300 Gaming PC, Home PC, Desktop PC (AMD FX-6300 OVERCLOCKED to 3.7GHz Six Core Bulldozer CPU, AMD Radeon 6670 2GB Graphics Card, 1TB Hard Drive, 8GB DDR3 Memory, HDMI 1080p, USB 3.0) Windows 8 PLUS FREE GAMES BUNDLE!

 

Why not eh..

Got it for about £300 online, a bit 2nd gen, but a good gaming machine and means I can give one of my other PC’s to Dawn and she can have her Laptop at her side of the bed same as me. Remember the old days when people lay in bed reading books? Now its on a Laptop or Tablet 🙂

It will cheer me up for a few days, Dawn was cool about it also, so lucky boy I am, can’t wait. Should be here by next Monday, also get 3 new PC games with it

Shaun is a happy person 🙂

Can’t take money with you, so they say, whoever “They” are

Calling all Skyper, Calling all Skypers, Roll up, Roll up!

 

 

1. I am not a big dirty pervert 🙂

2. I NEVER video, Audio only

3. Skyping is fun and free

4. Here is the Download http://www.skype.com/en/download-skype/skype-for-computer/

5. I love to talk to people all over the World

6. I think (Roughly) I speak with 93 from Word Press on Skype, Audio only

7. It will help when this happens > http://prayingforoneday.wordpress.com/shauns-radio-show-coming-soon/

This is a sample of my voice, I DO NOT BITE. This was a 5 minute test of my online radio set-up

 

Get me added

shaungy1973

More love, Less Hate

Your Pal, Shaun

We are SOOO close…

Deciding what blogs to follow, what is your method? Please reply

This is ACTUALLY me deciding what blogs to follow, Dawn took the picture for me, I love that Woman soooo much x ps: Did I mention this? 

So…

After 7 (Seven) am here, been up all night, sore, tired, pissed off, grumpy, won my league on Football manager “Stupid Game I play”  Watched  2 movies, printed out some pictures from the last week, downloaded several albums of my choice and liking, downloaded Pacific Rim and did a 3,000 word blog for a friend from “Another blogging site that is Shit” about the death of James Gandolfini that I can’t share here, I also took my dog a walk into the dark woods shyting myself I was, had a 2 hour  Skype chat with a mate, helping funeral arrangements for a friend, saved the World and some other shit also, decent night in with Lisha

LISHA MY DOG

Also I read and replied to 200 blogs or so best I could, nice to be nice you know, some good people here, so nice to visit their blogs also, I do slack on that, 1^st to admit it, but I am trying I hope people can see. And then it spawned this here blog like magic from a clown’s pocket

SO, what is your process in following blogs and replying to blogs?

Easy answer on the face of it really, but the answer will depend on how many people you follow, how many people you like, who talks shit and who doesn’t ( I am joking, pull your tights up) Also for me, and most crucial, who talks back, who likes and who really tries to speak back to me. For me I find it almost impossible to talk to everyone and I feel like a bastard for it if I am being honest, and I know I shouldn’t and deep down I guess I don’t but it is “Rude” to not try yeah?

I mean I am followed by 1,000 people (Really am thankful, truly am), it really is 985 people, sorry, 2 people sadly un-followed me, so 983 and going down, but 15 followed me the last two days, so it goes up and down, same for us all. I am upset however, I will need time to adjust x

This is not me

So I find it REALLY impossible to get around all the people who speak to me. So here is what I do, this is my method (Still upset over them 2 followers by the way) 😦 poor show there 😦 DEEPLY WOUNDED I AM! Actually I got 2 HATE Emails today, one was about pictures again, same f@cknugget and one was saying I disrespect GOD! Even though I say often “I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD” And say “More Love, Less Hate” Because I mean it, I care, I  give a shit, I really do care, I want a better World, then you get these people I do feel VERY SAD for people? who email people and give them a hard time over how to cook an egg and how a blog about spiders offended them to tears, I mean, get a life FFS, Really, but I am on several Social Media sites, Word Press is 100% the best by a LARGE mile, it is full of really nice and honest people, it has it’s moments, same as my Dog, but without bad moments we can’t appreciate the good moments, I hope you agree. I mean this is the Internet, real life exists and this is where I come to tell my story, vent, and care and show respect, there is NO place like it on the Internet I have found, and I know, what? about 43 sites all in, maybe more

I HONESTLY HAVE NO IDEA WHAT HALF OF THESE SITES DO!

Moving on, I made a bookmark folder called “Word Press Friends” and what I do is, when people, like, just an example here Andrea from http://myspokenheart.wordpress.com/  started following me and speaking to me, I made sure she was in this bookmark folder, so I open the bookmark folder and edit it from time to time. There are a few people in the 6 months I have been REALLY blogging here who “Like” everything and NEVER speak, so pointless having them in that folder, BUT I DO GO TO READER AND CHECK THEIR BLOG! Honest, so this bookmark folder I edit lets me know who I am communicating with as I have the same memory as one of them gold coloured things that splash about and swim in that wet stuff from taps?

So it is a way I found of keeping in contact with people who make an effort to keep in contact and have fun with me and discuss any old stuff, like Charles @ http://legendsofwindemere.com/ “You should Follow Charles by the way, Brilliant Writer and blogger” And I also make the effort to speak back, but listen (sorry read) I do try and visit blogs that NEVER speak back or like my blogs but follow my blog, I often get an Award and give it to people that follow me and try make some kind of contact, sometimes you give an Award, accepted, or “Sorry I don’t do Awards” or NOTHING.  I mean if someone gives you an Award at least say “Thank’s anyway, Awards are not my thing” I stopped Awards for a while, but I stopped meeting new people, so started again, and they are good fun to be fair yeah? Some take 3 months, some 5 minutes, but we blog, so an Award is a blog also, but I fully respect everyone’s opinions and ways, you have to in life, within reason!

All good fun Word Press

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How do you go about keeping your contacts and you talking? I use Skype a lot, email also, I have a lot of people I met on here on Face book now, like Andrea above, also get following her, amazing blogger and very funny also.

What is your process Word Press?

 

 

I invented this bad boy because I love you ALL! Please feel free to accept this Award, just take it, please help yourself, it is Monday, cheer yourself up, go on! 

 

PS: This was a serious blog with a hint of fun, 🙂 Cheers!

So I bought another Laptop this morning… For the bedroom, as I spend time there now, and got milk!

This top of the range Sony Vaio E Series laptop gives you a powerful Intel® Core® i7 processor, 15.5 inch screen, a massive 1Tb hard drive, Windows 8 and a 1Gb dedicated graphics chip.

Whatever your pleasure may be – social networking, music and movies, web shopping, gaming – you can do it all quickly and smoothly with this outstanding Sony Vaio laptop.

Enjoy movies, games or photos on the superb 15.5 inch HD display and built-in DVD optical drive. There’s no hanging about – the one-touch ‘WEB’ button lets you hit the internet in seconds without having to fully boot up the laptop.

A powerful Intel® Core® i7-3632QM Processor makes easy work of all your everyday computing jobs and multitasking, backed up by a speedy 8Gb RAM and 1Tb (1000Gb) hard drive, giving you storage space for up to 280,000 digital photos, 250 MP3s, 440 hours of DVD quality video or 120 hours of HD video.

You can also use the built-in webcam for face-to-face chats with friends anywhere in the world via Skype.

The Sony VAIO E Series laptop comes with an up-to-date software package, including Windows 8. Movies and games sound superb thanks to xLOUD and Clear Phase technologies that boost speaker volume levels without distortion.

 

Sony SVE1513C4ESI, Intel® Core™ i7, 8GB RAM, 1TB Hard Drive, 15.5in Laptop – Silver

£649.99 (Reduced and 10%)

• Intel® Core® i7-3632QM processor
• Microsoft Windows 8 Home Premium
• 8Gb RAM
• 1Tb (1000Gb) Hard Drive
• 15.5 inch display (1366 x 768)
• DVD optical drive
• 1GB Dedicated graphics
• HDMI, USB 2.0, USB 3.0
• 802.11 b/g/n, WiFi; Bluetooth 4.0
• 0.3Mp webcam and mic
• Sony Vaio SVE1513C4E laptop – Silver

 

WHEN WILL I LEARN I AM STILL IN AGONY!!!!!!!!

Least I got milk AND BREAD this time!

And it wasn’t till I got home, set it up on the stand I bought when I realised “I could have brought one of from the Kitchen or Main room through)

DICK<