5 Minute “Audio Blog” Me speaking about Pain x

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Having Woman Friends

So, plutonic relationships with the opposite Sex, is it doable? The answer is yeah

I have a ton of Girl pals in real life and many online, my Partner Dawn knows why. This blog here, I will remind you all about it: http://prayingforoneday.wordpress.com/2013/04/29/growing-up-with-a-criminal-family/

I grew up watching woman being used, hurt, hit, raped, and more. As a kid I could not do anything. As an adult I can. I tend to get very friendly with girls as there is no bravado; no “Hard Man Act” and I love the company of a woman. In Dawn my partner, I have a loving relationship, and she trusts me with all her heart, and with good reason, as I would never hurt her. If I see a woman getting hit ANYWHERE, That man loses a knee or wakes up in a new week or day in hospital, this is something I can’t help, due to the blog above

I get a lot of girls throwing their heart at me and sometimes I just brush it aside and make a laugh about it and I remain friends with that girl, I have many girls who at first wanted more, but now we are just close friends, some closer than others, and fun can be had without fucking

People say “It is impossible to have a plutonic relationship with the opposite sex” I say bullshit. I know I have not fucked every woman who has asked me to fuck her, because in the end all that will happen is I will hurt that woman and also hurt Dawn, I can’t do it to Dawn and I can never bring myself to hurt a woman

Some will read this and say “He is up his own arse big time” But please, don’t think like this. I have fun on all mediums on the internet with many people, some are men but most are girls, so I have to be careful I don’t send out the wrong signals, as it is easy to break a woman’s heart, trust me I have seen it first hand

Breaking a woman’s heart means I break my own. Should Dawn my partner ever ask me to stop talking to girls in real life and online, I would say no, but she would never ask this from me, because she knows I know how easy it is to break a woman’s heart and how I love woman. You girls hurt easy, so I just want to be a friend and take that hurt away. My partner Dawn WILL READ THIS BLOG. She will be fine and cool with it, she gets me, she understands

Girls just want to have fun right? Yeah ladies? Well let’s, I am a happily married man with kids and a wonderful life. If I ever come across as I am flirting with a girl, I guess I am just being nice. As not a fibre of my being can be rude or nasty to a woman. I am not “That Guy”  I come across a lot of girls who are not in love, or not happy and they just want to feel loved and have fun, so….

Let’s have fun ok, we all can

ALL IN THE LYRICS!

Love is love, don’t try to change it – Music Video (Bruno Mars)

Some people can go their whole life looking for love, some find it and throw it away, some find it and keep it close, at all costs. Sometimes when I blog I throw in a song, to, well, capture the moment I guess

This is a song we all should know, “Just the way you are” Bruno Mars, and it is this message in love I like. When you fall in love, when you connect with another human being on a level of love, we don’t change them. We keep them as we got them, and we remind them every day, that we still like what we liked the day we met them

I love music, it is universal, it speaks in all languages and style of music is unimportant, the message is. I know people who fall in love then try and change a person. Can anyone relate to this? I guess so. I am not perfect, far from it. I try all the time to make myself a better Father, and lover and Husband

And the only way I figured out I can do this is by allowing my partner to be herself, how dare I try and change her, and vice versa. I know many couples who almost hate each other, I see and hear of men and woman on the internet, who are married, STILL looking for extra love. I am not to judge here, please no; I am just a person with a keyboard, a heart and a bit of experience in love

I love this song for the message and what the message is, I hope you do also, if you are in love, or new to love, keep the person you FELL IN LIVE WITH and remind them, every day, about love

Ohhhhh ohhhhhh ohhhhhh ohhhhhhh[Verse 1:]
Oh, her eyes, her eyes
Make the stars look like they’re not shinin’
Her hair, her hair
Falls perfectly without her trying
She’s so beautiful
And I tell her everyday
YeahhI know, I know
When I compliment her she won’t believe me
And it’s so, it’s so
Sad to think that she don’t see what I see
But every time she asks me “Do I look okay? ”
I say[Chorus:]
When I see your face (face face…)
There’s not a thing that I would change
‘Cause you’re amazing (amazing)
Just the way you are (are)
And when you smile (smile smile…)
The whole world stops and stares for a while
‘Cause girl you’re amazing (amazing)
Just the way you are (are)
Yeah

[Verse 2:]
Her lips, her lips
I could kiss them all day if she’d let me
Her laugh, her laugh
She hates but I think it’s so sexy
She’s so beautiful
And I tell her everyday

Oh you know, you know, you know
I’d never ask you to change
If perfect’s what you’re searching for
Then just stay the same
So don’t even bother asking if you look okay
You know I’ll say

[Chorus:]
When I see your face (face face…)
There’s not a thing that I would change
‘Cause you’re amazing (amazing)
Just the way you are (are)
And when you smile (smile smile…)
The whole world stops and stares for a while
‘Cause girl you’re amazing (amazing)
Just the way you are (are)

The way you are
The way you are
Girl you’re amazing (amazing)
Just the way you are (are)

[Chorus:]
When I see your face
There’s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing (amazing)
Just the way you are (are)
And when you smile
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are

Yeah

More love, Less Hate

Easy to do

If you miss someone, and want to be with them, this song is for you

Sometimes I find myself blogging and sharing on a whim, no reason to, wasn’t planning to. But “Shaun being Shaun” I think of others. I know a friend misses his Daughter, I know a Father who misses his kids, I know a man who misses his Mother, that man is me. So this blog is for anyone who misses someone, for any reason, for any emotion.

Love, Peace, Individual acts of kindness, Hope, Praying, kindness alone, Humility, Humanity, Love. Respect, are words I am thinking as I type here.

Love and peace to all

Shaun x

 

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